I ‘APOLOGISE’ FOR ALL THE AMAZING CHANGES YOU ARE ABOUT TO EXPERIENCE
… your life may never be the same again …
Have you ever felt like you wanted to make big changes in your life but didn’t know how or you tried but failed miserably?
Do you ever wonder about how your life would be different if you did A, B, or C differently?
Have you ever wished you had a different life?
How about having thoughts that went something like this “I wish I knew what my purpose in life was.”? Or, “when I land my dream job I’ll finally be able to make some money and be happy”? Or, “when I meet THE ONE I’ll be happy”? Or what about “I can’t wait for the kids to grow up so I can find myself again”? Or this one “If only I had more time to spend with my family”? and the list goes on and on….
On the flip side…. HAVE YOU EVER entertained the crazy possible idea that you actually CAN live an amazingly purposeful life, where you are fully aligned at your CORE with your PURPOSE, your GOALS, your DREAMS, your SPIRITUALITY and your HEART?
You should try it on for size. Believe me. It’s true!
Yes, I know that sometimes you may be feeling like you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. I’ve been there. Your emotions are running high and your conflict management is running extremely low. Maybe even Anger and Guilt are becoming your frequent house guests. I’ve been there.
You might even be worrying that you’re not spending enough hours connecting with your children or your partner. Any efforts you make and all your best intentions just can’t seem to support the deep happiness you desire so much but remains out of reach. WHY?
With low energy, lack of inspiration, motivation and drive you just go through the motions day in and day out hoping something will shift. On your really bad days, you might even feel like giving up and throwing in the towel…. BUT something keeps you afloat.
A flicker of hope.
In the deepest part of your being, your spirit, your heart, you just KNOW that YOUR LIFE can be and is a MAGNIFICENT GIFT right now and that all you need is a little guidance!
When you find that which you deeply seek, all will fall into place like a puzzle. At the flick of a switch you are the CREATOR of your life NOW!
The time is now my dear mama friends. No more procrastinating.
Do you want to get your mojo back and embrace the MAGIC that your LIFE is? Do you want to reignite within you what is your birthright? Joy. Health. Peace. Excitement. Abundance. Flow. Radiance. Love. Prosperity…
I’d like to ask you this question: If you could not fail, how would your life be different right now? If a miracle just happened, and you got everything you wished for, how would that feel for you? What would it look like?
Whatever that may be for you, I am committed to helping you achieve it!
What am I talking about? Stay with me….
Born and raised in beautiful South Africa, I grew up in a big family and had a fairly cool childhood. I am the third of four daughters – the tomboy in the family – and regularly referred to as ‘the black sheep’. When I wasn’t playing with my dogs you could find me in a tree or on a bike or riding horses in the bush! Always drawn to nature, refusing to wear skirts, I secretly wanted to become a Vet or a Conservationist.
At around the age of 21, I hesitantly followed my family and moved to the gorgeous Island of Cyprus to start a new life where I have the beach literally on my doorstep now, and I AM LOVING LIFE on this tiny island!
HUGE PLUS…. This is where I met the most amazing gentleman on the planet who is now my husband. But let me take you one step back….
Before we got married, my husband literally ‘pushed’ me to follow my heart and do my Life Coach training. ETERNAL GRATITUDE TO HIM because doing that truly opened my eyes and awakened my soul to my true self and my awesomeness! Now don’t get me wrong, life before becoming a Life Coach was GOOOOD! I was dating, travelling, eating out, working out, clubbing out!
Working and earning and spending as it pleased me. But deep down I was yearning for something better. Something bigger. Perhaps more meaning and purpose to my relationships. Maybe a deeper connection to myself and to God. Certainly some healing from physical ailments. Forgiveness for past hurts. Searching for something I just didn’t know what. Upon completion of my training, life literally spun upside down and inside out and I am loving every second of it! Everything shifted in my mind, body and soul. Now, life is such a blessing and a blank canvas waiting to be painted! Challenges and all! And that’s what I want YOU TO KNOW and what I want to SHOW you and help you with!
My children are almost 6yrs (Cristiano) and 2yrs old(Sofia). They really threw me off balance when they came on the scene and I can completely relate to how lost you may be feeling right now. YES, MY CHILDREN ARE MY LIFE. But they do not control it, and I had to teach that to myself! Nobody taught me how to be a mom and still honour myself at the same time. I felt a lack of control and life had become a crazy rollercoaster ride! Thankfully I have been through exactly what you are going through and I managed to figure it out! If you’ve had just about enough of that old life I can help you too!
My job (which I love I might add) as your coach is to teach you, amongst other things, that loving your kids does not mean that you love yourself less! I will teach you to love yourself so much, that you will do nothing else but SERVE your highest interests which will in turn lead you to your most beautifully designed life you can think of. This is a skill that needs to be learnt and practised if it does not come naturally to you. Your children were born THROUGH you (and not TO you, as the poet Khalil Gibran writes), to live life in their own unique expression. Your job is to provide for them, support them, guide them, mentor and coach them, while living YOUR LIFE IN YOUR OWN UNIQUE EXPRESSION. As your coach I will help you see that you don’t need to hide behind your kids anymore. You can walk fearlessly alongside them and carry your own and I will show you how!
Right now, I SALUTE YOU MAMA!
Because even though it’s tough being YOU, you are doing it! The perfect mom. The amazing wife. The carer and hot sexy lover. The nurturer. And so many more hats that you juggle every day. I want to thank you for being so versatile and flexible and just bending all the way backwards for your family and your children!
And… you can stop all that bending now! Seriously!
With all these hats, it must be tough remembering WHO YOU INTRINSICALLY ARE…? I know for me it was very challenging and I definitely had my dark days. And, having been through all of this, I am so grateful I was already a Life Coach and able to coach myself through it. It is why I saw and still see a huge need for the programme I have developed to help moms like me and you to get your MOJO back. If we are not in a good place internally we are not able to parent from a place of true joy; we get tired of our role and we start to fray, in all aspects. But I figured it out! And I promise you that you will remember your ESSENCE so that you feel meaning and purpose deep inside again, whatever you choose to be doing or being, and not just through the eyes of your children, but most importantly THROUGH YOUR OWN EYES… the ones that are seeing you from the depths of your soul… PERHAPS FOR THE FIRST REAL TIME IN A LONG TIME.
The skills I will teach you go way beyond emotional intelligence and anger management. I am talking real butt kicking tools that will have you saying ‘a-ha’ at each step and help you build the deepest connection with yourself and your children. I know this because THIS is how I live my life EVERY DAY!
I am not a coach that will tell you how to raise your children. You know how to do that already! This is a LIFE COURSE for moms in desperate S.O.S. need of BIG CHANGES and I have the concrete coaching model that will SHIFT you to where you want to be.
Don’t you think it’s time to get back in the driver’s seat of your life? To stop being a victim of your emotions and imagination and circumstances? If I were to tell you that you are SO worthy of the life you dream of and the best relationship with yourself, your children and your partner, would you believe me? What if I told you that I can help you reach that and any other desire you may have?
For me, working with moms is so awesome because it takes me back to my struggles and challenges and really gets me appreciative of the journey to where I am today. Without that journey I wouldn’t have figured out this programme. I feel truly blessed to be in this position to be able to offer ALL I know to help other moms. Our kids need happy moms! DEEPLY HAPPY MOMS! When a mom changes her inner landscape her whole world changes with her! EVERYTHING shifts! It is so rewarding to witness a mom empowered and stepping up to her highest standards and living a life of purpose and true inner joy. This is my addiction! It fills my cup! You moms rock!
People often ask me how I work so here it is…
I coach my clients on a one-to-one basis either in person or by phone, (by phone if distance is a factor or even using Skype). The reason I love the one-to-one method is because it’s a powerful way to coach using my tools and interventions on the spot. Like an athlete in training! I get to catch the sabotaging mind processes right then and there and work with you in real time to deconstruct old patterns and create new ones. I may also provide support and content by email if required. (Group workshops and school programs are also available as are webinars for any workshops my clients may be interested in).
If you’d like to work with me in creating a super, high frequency shift right now in your life then I’d like you to join me for a mini-session. This is where we get a chance to meet and you will get to see if we are a good fit as a client and coach. It’s where I will talk a little about my program and you will share some of your struggles. From there we will both get to see if we match so we can start the engines and move forward.
Wishing you infinite mojo
Alexia Vlahos Kolokasides
Professional Life ‘Shake things up’ Happiness Coach
Awakened crazy-in-love wife, conscious mother, rebel daughter, crazy sister and kick-ass friend
Empowering WOMEN, men and children all over the world to step up and ground themselves in their magnificence, shining their true light throughout infinity
(if you are not a mom / or woman, you are still very welcome and it would be my honour to coach you and teach you the UNIVERSAL tools you want to have to make the BIG changes you want to make and go on living the life you dream of)